Happier Holidays: How to Celebrate No Matter What
Happier Holidays: How to Celebrate No Matter What
December 14, 2020
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37m
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Episode Ranking: 8/100
TOPICS: Social Media Technology
Episode Description
In this podcast episode, Dr. Laurie Santos brings together top happiness experts to navigate the unique challenges of the 2020 holiday season. Guests include Jamil Zaki from Stanford University, Liz Dunn from the University of British Columbia, and Nick Epley from the University of Chicago. They share tips, tricks, and science-backed strategies to maximize joy and minimize stress during the festive season.
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In the 'Happier Holidays: How to Celebrate No Matter What' episode of 'The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos,' the 2020 holiday season is approached with the understanding that it is unlike any other due to the COVID-19 pandemic. The episode begins with Dr. Laurie Santos acknowledging the cancellation of traditional festivities and the impact this has on happiness. To address this, Dr. Santos hosts a virtual holiday Zoom party with renowned psychologists Dr. Jamil Zaki, Dr. Liz Dunn, and Dr. Nick Epley to discuss scientific insights on achieving a happier holiday season despite the circumstances.
The conversation centers on the concept of 'time famine' and how the pandemic has unexpectedly provided the gift of time. The psychologists explore how this surplus of time can be used to savor and appreciate low-key experiences that might typically be overlooked during the hustle of a normal holiday season. They discuss the importance of being present and savoring the moment, suggesting mindfulness as a key strategy. They also touch on the pitfalls of technology and social media in detracting from genuine experiences, emphasizing the importance of being present without the distraction of documenting every moment.
The discussion then shifts to the challenges of maintaining social connections during the holidays when traditional gatherings are not possible. The experts explore creative ways to foster a sense of togetherness, such as virtual book clubs or structured Zoom activities, while also recognizing the limitations and differences of online interactions compared to in-person ones. They stress the importance of pre-committing to social interactions and creating new traditions to replace those that cannot be held.
The episode also delves into the delicate topic of navigating contentious conversations with family members, especially around COVID-19 norms. Dr. Zaki highlights the power of empathy in bridging divides and fostering understanding, while Dr. Epley emphasizes the importance of listening and not just talking. The psychologists discuss strategies for managing family expectations and mitigating feelings of social exclusion during the holidays.
The conversation centers on the concept of 'time famine' and how the pandemic has unexpectedly provided the gift of time. The psychologists explore how this surplus of time can be used to savor and appreciate low-key experiences that might typically be overlooked during the hustle of a normal holiday season. They discuss the importance of being present and savoring the moment, suggesting mindfulness as a key strategy. They also touch on the pitfalls of technology and social media in detracting from genuine experiences, emphasizing the importance of being present without the distraction of documenting every moment.
The discussion then shifts to the challenges of maintaining social connections during the holidays when traditional gatherings are not possible. The experts explore creative ways to foster a sense of togetherness, such as virtual book clubs or structured Zoom activities, while also recognizing the limitations and differences of online interactions compared to in-person ones. They stress the importance of pre-committing to social interactions and creating new traditions to replace those that cannot be held.
The episode also delves into the delicate topic of navigating contentious conversations with family members, especially around COVID-19 norms. Dr. Zaki highlights the power of empathy in bridging divides and fostering understanding, while Dr. Epley emphasizes the importance of listening and not just talking. The psychologists discuss strategies for managing family expectations and mitigating feelings of social exclusion during the holidays.
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